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Saturday, May 21, 2011

Mystery




Trivia

Strange how it worked out this way.

Even if you are not religious, please read this.



What is the shortest chapter in the Bible?

A: Psalm 117



What is the longest chapter in the Bible?

A: Psalm 119



Which chapter is in the center of the Bible?

A: Psalm 118



Facts: There are 594 Chapters before Psalm 118.

There are 594 Chapters after Psalm 118.

Add these numbers up and you get 1188.



What is the center verse in the Bible?



Does this verse say something significant about the perfect will for our lives?



Psalm 118:8

"It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man."









Accept who you are and what you are. That is a First Pace in finding way through your Happiness
In his glory and love declare. Life is not just unfair, discover more to settle the score. ^^,

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Lovingly Yours

Love others as you love yourself is considered by many to be one of the world’s greatest teachings. There are several good reasons for this. One reason has been hidden from common awareness and understanding. In fact, in some places and times this reason even has been banned from being taught or even discussed.

This reason is that the teaching, love others as you love yourself, can be seen as speaking of a democratic (anti-authoritarian) system where everybody gets to be a winner and no one need be a loser. It works this way. If I love others and not myself I am the loser. If I love myself and not others, others go unloved and are the likely losers. If I love neither myself nor others we are all the less for that. Only if I love you and also myself do we have an ‘I win, you win, nobody loses’ outcome.

Let’s look at the word ‘AS’. In English it is a very small, short word. In many languages ‘AS’ is a larger word and commands more attention. Here the word ‘AS’ can be seen relating to several things. ‘I love you as I love me’ can mean I love you at the same time I love me. It also can mean I love you and me to the same degree. It may mean I love you in the same manner or ways I love myself; in this understanding of the great teaching we both get to do healthfully well. This understanding also suggests a system by which we both can grow stronger and become better for the world we live in. The word ‘AS’, therefore, points to a lot of important meaning in the teaching to loving others as you love yourself.

What about sacrificial love you may ask? Let me suggest sacrifice is good in emergencies but not so much otherwise. If we have enough time it’s best to figure out how to love self as we love another so no one need be the loser. Think of it this way. If I cut off my right arm for you it makes our next hug poor. Better that I keep both of my arms, exercise them and then for both you and me hugs, and a lot more, will be far better. Unfortunately there is a fair amount of needless self-sacrifice in the world. This is partly because self-sacrifice has been taught as a ‘high holy virtue’. It’s true that sometimes it is, and that kind of sacrifice sometimes represents great loving and important, helpful action but not always. Some people tend to be self-sacrificing about almost everything and much of that is just not healthy nor is it needed. Then there are those who pretend to be self-sacrificing martyrs so as to obtain ‘higher holiness kudos’ and/or guilt leverage for manipulating others.

It is a bit complicated to love others while at the same time loving yourself. Consider these ramifications. If you are loving others approximately to the same degree you are loving yourself, and in more or less the same manner, you are keeping things balanced and probably indicating to others you are deserving of good treatment. Know that if you treat yourself sacrificially or in other ways treat yourself poorly you may be teaching others that it’s OK to sacrifice you and treat you poorly. Not only that, you may be unknowingly influencing them to treat nearly everybody that way. You also could be an influence for others learning to needlessly and harmfully sacrifice themselves. When we love others as we love ourselves we model for others an ‘I win, you win’, approach to human interaction and love relationships. Acting to love others while modeling healthy self-love can help others, especially children, learn self-care, self-esteem and self-confidence while influencing them to act in ways that are good for others. It also helps children learn to respect their parents because the parents are modeling self-respect which is a part of healthy self-love. Thus, it is that this seemingly simple teaching has a great many components to contemplate.

It may help to know a little history of this teaching or concept. Around 3000 years ago, or so, a Hebrew wisdom-master taught the revolutionary idea “love your neighbor as you love yourself”. The question was asked who is my neighbor? The answer evolved to be – Everyone! It is now understood that anyone you have anything to do with and anyone you may have some effect upon, no matter how remote or small, is your neighbor. This understanding leads to the concept ‘our village is our planet, and our neighbors are the life forms that live with us on it’. In the future, who knows, it may even reach out to include our solar system and far beyond.

About 2000 years ago the man called Jesus (in English) took this teaching and made it one of only two Commandments he ever pronounced. These two commandments, according to many theologians, are what Christianity is founded upon. In effect ‘love others as you love yourself’ is one half of the constitutional law of Christianity.

Sadly the ‘as you love yourself’ part mostly either has been ignored, purposefully avoided, downplayed, or given a de-powering interpretation. It often also has been replaced by teachings like ‘put yourself last’ and ‘all self-love is selfish and evil’. From a psychotherapist’s point of view these anti-self-love teachings have been disastrous for the mental health of many. Put yourself last and see self-love as evil promotes the development of low self esteem, low self-confidence, taking poor or bad care of yourself and becoming in character weak, subservient, submissive, and vulnerable to users and abusers. Furthermore, these anti-self-love teachings influence us toward feeling guilty for honest and accurate pride in doing things well and in our own intrinsic worth; they actually are counter teachings to “as you love yourself”.

You may ask how did this come to be? Some think that authoritarian religionists under the influence of monarchists and royalists promoted the de-emphasizing of the ‘as you love yourself’ part of this second great Commandment. Probably because it was seen that the ‘love yourself’ concept points to self strengthening and, thus, to dangerous, independent, self-directed living which, when carried far enough, can result in anti-monarchy democracy. That could threatened the social advantages and control of both the religious and royal masters of pre-democratic times. With these corruptions the teaching became something like ‘be good to others but not to yourself’ because that is the devil’s way which is sinful, selfish, uppity and against God’ unless, of course, you are high born or called to high religious orders. Still today among some who have and want authoritarian power the ‘as you love yourself’ idea is seen as a threat to be de-emphasized or ignored. On a personal level today many still suffer from the concept that their okayness is granted by others (parents, a man, a woman, what others think of them, etc.) instead of by their own evaluation of their intrinsic value, accomplishments, character, etc.

With that background in mind some questions are in order. How will you deal with the idea of loving others while at the same time, and to the same degree, and in the same manner you work to love yourself ? Are you willing to do some work to healthfully love yourself so that you can healthfully love others better? If you have strong anti love of yourself programs in your head what will you do about those? If when acting to healthfully love yourself and be good to yourself you feel conflict, guilt, shame or any other bad feeling who might you go to for help? What can you actually do to balance loving others better and more as you also healthfully love yourself better and more? How might you go about studying new, different and better ways to love others and new, different and better ways to love yourself?

As always– grow and go with love



Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Time is Gold

Some people just can’t get what others mean when they say ‘ TIME is GOLD’. Well, actually it has a lot of meanings depending on the person who said it. Right now, it means to me like getting the most fun moments out of your time. I do not want spending it just to get stressed especially at leisure although I believe everything has some stressful moments attached to them. But still, you can pick events that aren’t that stressful and time consuming. You never know when your time is so better spend it wisely. Always try to enjoy your moments while you still can. I’m telling this because some can’t do things anymore the way they want to. When one gets crippled, he obviously can’t spend time traveling or playing or working the way normal people do them. Right?

For some reasons, I’m just being rational here because no matter how I explain this thing to other people, they don’t get me. They don’t get me because what matters to them is just about being productive in their day and to be productive one has to be busy doing something. This idea of being productive of one’s day isn’t working for me. It’s just not the way I look at being productive about my time. Whenever I accomplished a bunch of things and afterwards I get headache or worries, then its not at all a productive day for me. Well, it could be for the one to whom I worked for but definitely not for me.

So, if I would give out a conclusion about productivity and about time being gold, I would say ‘Time is indeed gold so we have to be as productive and as accomplished as we can be. And we are only productive when we have done things with enjoyment before and after we’ve done them.’ Therefore, I don’t consider it productive when you become burned out after accomplishing a thing.

Beginnings are scary, endings are sad
and the in-between? Well, it counts the most and should be the best part.
So don't dwell on the beginning or devote yourself on aiming for a happy ending, because the best part of the story might be missed.
Bottom Line:
Enjoy while you're still in the middle. We can't change how it began. Moreover, we can't predict how it will end.


Thursday, May 5, 2011

Happiness in the Sun

Sunshine and Happiness

The sun is the original source and foundation of life on this planet. Its rays bring to us many and varied blessings. Besides supplying us with heat and energy, the sun is also a healing power. It heals sick­ness by destroying harmful bacteria which breed in filth and putre­faction.

With the aid of the sunrays leaves of plants transform carbon dioxide of the air into chlorophyll, sugar, and other carbon com­pounds of which all parts of the plant are composed. To animals the sunrays supply directly Vitamin D which performs in the body the task of uniting the two vital elements, calcium and phosphorus, in the process of building bones. The sun promotes normal growth in plants as well as in animals. Children raised completely, or even partially, without sunshine develop rickets, anemia, and a number of other similar deficiency diseases.

Primitive man spent most of his life outdoors in the sun. Modern man, on the other hand, has shut himself indoors for the largest part of his time. He has darkened his rooms with curtains, blinds, and drapes and hid himself in huge skyscrapers, basements and fac­tories with the result of becoming anemic, suffering from underdevelopment, soft bones and weak nerves.

Some people may argue that we still get a sufficient amount of converted sunshine from the foods we eat. Indeed plants do contain all known vitamins; they obtain them from the sun and later con­vey them to those who consume them. Raw green vegetables, egg yolks, and the livers of animals contain large amounts of Vitamin D. Oddly enough, the richest source of this vitamin is found in cod liver oil, the oil extracted from a fish which never sees the sun. This is understandable because the codfish derives Vitamin D from its food — the sea plants floating on the ocean which receive this vita­min directly from the sunrays. Surely we could get enough Vitamin D from the right kind of foods, but the drawback is that the average person nowadays uses a very small amount of natural foods, and what vitamin D is obtained from our modern foods is not sufficient for our needs without the main source of it — the sun itself.

To grow normally and retain good health we, as well as our children, must cultivate the habit of taking advantage of the sun’s presence whenever possible. Spread your curtains wide and open up your windows to admit plenty of sunshine into your rooms — the glass of the windows prevents the healing ultraviolet rays from getting through. Whenever possible spend your time outdoors; wear shorts and let the sun bathe every part of your body.

People whose skin has not been accustomed to the sun should use caution and not get sunburned, as that is both painful and un­healthy. Get your body used to the sunrays starting gradually with ten to fifteen minutes of exposure on the first day of sunbathing, and increasing that daily by five minutes until a good tan is ob­tained. The most beneficial sunrays are those of the early morning sun. This has been proved by exposing some plants to the morning sun, others to that of the afternoon. It was found that the former grew better than the latter ones. Try to get a daily outdoor sunbath throughout the year; indoors — through an open window wherever it is not possible to be outside.

A good ultraviolet lamp is very helpful when the sun is not out, in cold weather, or in the cold seasons of the year. In selecting an ultraviolet lamp, do not take any of those equipped with ordinary electric bulbs of glass. The light of the lamp should be either entirely in the open or enclosed in quartz. Ordinary glass does not permit the ultraviolet rays to go through, so by using lamps made of such glass you will be only wasting your time and money.

Vitamin D which is sent to us by the sun is absorbed by our skin and then gradually conveyed by the blood from the skin to the inner organs and all the cells of our body. Since this is a process which takes time it is advisable not to wash the skin with soap and hot water immediately after a sunbath or an ultraviolet lamp treat­ment. A lapse of several hours should be allowed before taking a bath where soap and hot water are used.

Lack of space does not permit us to go into details of all the ailments relieved by direct or artificial sunlight. These benefits are well known to almost everyone as sun treatments have been used for many generations with good results. However, instead of over­coming disease by means of any kind of treatments, sunlight in­cluded, is it not better to prevent it by the same means if possible?

Store up vital energy and build a strong healthy body by exposing yourself daily to the great promoter of life — the sun.
Sunshine means health; it is also synonymous with happiness. Get your share of it. It is entirely free. =)

How to sleep well

How to Sleep Well

Eight hours a day, or exactly one-third of our lives, we spend in bed sleeping. This fact alone is a convincing indication of the great importance of sleep. Indeed, sleep is more important than food. Experiments on animals have shown that while it is possible to do without food for as long as sixty days and more, one cannot survive longer than five to six days without sleep. During the hours of sleep the important work of body growth and the repair of worn tissues is performed. Also important is the fact that while we sleep our brain and nerves relax and recuperate so that they are in a better shape to direct our actions during the next day’s waking hours.

In sleeping, as in other respects, modern man has strayed away from nature. The best hours of sleep are those between sundown and midnight and the best waking hours are those from sunrise till darkness. Modern man as a rule goes to sleep at late hours and gets up after sunrise. He substitutes for the best hours of sleep the poorest, and, as a result, pays with his health for this trans­gression.

The generally accepted average of eight hours a day is about the proper requirement of time for sleeping. High-strung in­dividuals, infants, and old people — all require more sleep than the easygoing, the young and the middle aged. The quality of sleep is also very important. Good sound sleep of short duration will refresh you much better than a longer period of restless inter­rupted sleep. It is easy to know when you have had enough sleep by a refreshed feeling in the morning instead of dullness and tired­ness which comes from the lack of sleep. In addition to the night sleep a short nap in the afternoon, say ten to fifteen minutes, especially after lunch, is very beneficial and should be managed by everyone. If you watch animals you will notice that they usually curl up and take a nap after their midday meal.

Since you spend one third of your life in bed you must see to it that you sleep in perfect comfort. Your bedroom should be the quietest room in the house, well ventilated and darkened. Your bed should have a good mattress, preferably one with an inner-spring. The mattress should not be too soft because sleeping on soft beds makes your muscles sag and causes curvature of the spine. It is advisable to put a full-length five-ply board between the spring and the mattress. This makes the sleeping surface levelly horizontal, and prevents sagging in the center of the bed. It is also advisable to use lightweight covering, preferably woolen blan­kets, or, better yet, an electric one. Heavy covering interferes with skin breathing, impedes digestion, and causes restlessness.

It is definitely a more restful and healthful practice for married couples to sleep in separate beds. However, since there are other matters involved, and most couples prefer a double bed, the so-called “Hollywood” bed proves to be the most comfortable one for a restful sleep. It is a double bed having two separate mattresses placed side by side. In sleeping on such separate mattresses there is less chance of one person disturbing the other while changing posi­tions, which often happens whether asleep or awake.

Snoring is a source of great annoyance and loss of sleep and health not only for a bedfellow but also for others in the family who sleep in adjacent rooms. Many a divorce has had its initial cause in the snoring of one of the marital partners. It is hardly a thing you can get yourself accustomed to when your sleep is inter­rupted and the noise continues until you are completely exhausted. Too much starchy and other acid-forming foods, overeating, espe­cially at the last meal of the day, sinus and bronchial troubles — these may be responsible for habitual snoring. Sleeping on your back with your mouth open often causes snoring. Care should be taken to correct this habit if one does not want to become a nuisance to his loved ones. To correct it the proper thing to do is to take up a regime of rational living and natural foods.

The best sleeping position is the one on the right side because while you are in it the work of the heart, lungs, and the stomach is unimpeded since they are on the top of other inner organs in this position. However, it is advisable to change your sleeping position a couple of times during the night. For the best sleep have a small thin soft pillow; better yet, no pillow at all. Sleeping on high pil­lows strains your neck and causes curvature of the spine. Higher pillows are useful only in cases of insomnia, headache, and asthma since they lessen the flow of blood to the head.

Many people are unable to fall asleep easily, they wake up and stay awake for a long time before falling asleep again. Children and, also, physical workers who are all active during the day will never experience any difficulty in sleeping. It is the inactive person, the light worker, the housewife, who suffer from light sleep. How­ever, the main sufferer is the one who takes all his worries and daily affairs to bed with him. Good sleep requires complete relaxa­tion of the brain as well as of the muscles. Try to solve all your problems and leave all your worries behind before you attempt to go to sleep.

When ready to fall asleep assume the most comfortable position for you, relax every muscle in your body, and then try to completely blank out your mind. To do the latter close your eyes concentrating them on the spot between your eyebrows, think of nothing, and listen to your own breathing. Do not have in mind that you want to fall asleep. The more anxious you are about that, the more strained you will become, and sleep will only evade you. Take the attitude that all you want is just to relax and be comfortable, and it won’t take long for you to find yourself in dreamland.

Other aids to sound sleep are: reading in bed, preferably of some relaxing literature for about ten minutes, no longer, just long enough to take your mind away from your surroundings; soft music on the radio with the lights dimmed or entirely out; a hot foot bath, especially on cold nights, to draw the blood away from your head — all these will help a lot.

Never use any drugs to induce sleep. These are highly injurious and do not accomplish the purpose of promoting restful sleep. They are all habit forming and require larger and larger doses to knock you out.

Avoid heavy meals before retiring. Even short snacks or drinks other than a glass of water will interfere with sound sleep. Take your last meal of the day at least four or five hours before you go to bed.

Spend the last couple of hours of the day in some quiet, peace­ful occupation — take a walk, read, listen to pleasant music, or watch a good unexciting picture on your television. Quarreling, too much talking, or any kind of excitement are not conducive to good sleep.

Remember that in order to sleep well you must be in complete physical and mental harmony with yourself and your surroundings.